The Stoic Inner Strategy

Ep 185 – When Pain Turns Into Something Good

The One and Only Scott Smith Season 2 Episode 185

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Disclaimer:
This episode includes mention of the death of a spouse, a deeply loved wife and mother, and personal reflections on loss, faith, and the unexpected ways pain shapes our lives. It is not a theological discussion, but Scott shares a deeply personal story to illustrate Ovid’s teaching on resilience. Listener discretion is advised if you are currently navigating grief.

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Scott Smith shares a deeply personal reflection on loss, faith, and the unexpected blessings that grow from hardship. Inspired by Ovid’s ancient wisdom, this episode explores how pain can transform us, strengthen us, and eventually turn toward good.

🎙️ Episode Summary

“Endure and persist; this pain will turn to good by and by.” — Ovid

Pain feels permanent until you make it through it once. And then you realize it moves. It changes. It becomes something new.

In this episode, Scott steps outside the usual script and shares one of the most difficult experiences of his life: the sudden loss of his first wife, becoming a single father of seven, and the long road through grief that ultimately led to unexpected blessings, including the arrival of his youngest son.

This is not a story about pain disappearing. It’s a story about how pain transforms — how hardship can shape a life in ways you could never predict, and how enduring and persisting through the darkest moments can lead to strength, gratitude, and renewal.

Ovid wasn’t promising comfort. He was offering truth. Pain is temporary, and it can become something powerful if you stay with it.

🧠 What You’ll Learn Today
• How pain shifts and evolves over time
• Why enduring hardship creates unexpected strength
• How personal loss can transform identity and purpose
• The relationship between Stoic resilience and lived experience
• How to see your own trials as part of a larger story

🔍 Tags: Stoicism, Ovid, Grief, Resilience, Leadership, Personal Growth, Faith, Emotional Strength, Endurance, Mindset

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